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爱情是盲目的,生活是现实的  

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    你发觉到了吗?爱的感觉,总是在一开始很甜蜜,总觉得多了一个人陪,多了一个人帮你分担,你终于不再孤单了,因为至少有一个人想着你,恋着你,不论做什么事情,只要能在一起,就是好的。

  但是慢慢的,随着彼此的认识愈深,你开始发现了对的缺点,于是问题一个接着一个的发生,你开始烦、累,甚至想要逃避。有人说爱情就像捡石头,总想捡到一个适合自己的,但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢?

  其实,爱情应该像磨石子儿,或许刚捡到的时候,你不是那么满意,但是请记住,人是有弹性的,很多事情是可以改变的,只要你有心,有勇气,与其到处去捡未知的石头,还不如好好将自己已经拥用的石头磨亮磨光,你开始磨了吗?很多人以为,是因为感情淡了,所以人才会变得懒惰。其实是人先被惰性征服,所以感情才会变淡的。

  我们总说:“我要找一个很爱很爱的人,才会谈恋爱。”但是当对方问你,怎样才算是很爱很爱的时候,你却无法回答他,因为你自己也不知道。

  没错,我们总是以为,我们会找到一个自己很爱很爱的人。可是后来,当我们猛然回首,我们才会发觉自己曾经多么天真。假如从来没有开始,你怎么知道自己会不会很爱很爱那个人呢?其实,很爱很爱的感觉,是要在一起经历了许多事情之后才会发现的。

  爱,绝不是缺了就找,更不是累了就换

  找一个能一起吃苦的,而不是一起享受的

  找一个能一起承担的,而不是一起逃避的

  找一个能对你负责的,而不是对爱情负责的

  爱情是盲目的,生活是现实的

  因为爱情只不过是人类为了逃避现实

  而衍生的产品

    爱情的主体是生活,一起生活

  你能陪她一时的难过,但你能陪她承受所有的压力吗?

  你能给她身体的温度,但你能给她生活的方向吗?

  你可曾想象当热情褪去,

  拥抱对你已经没有任何吸引力

  你们如何走下去?

  你可以忘记以前的誓言,但要记住自己的真心。

  扪心自问,你是否爱的那么深?

  你愿意让两个人都受伤吗?

  生活不是一个人好好的活

  是两个人如何一起好好过

 

   

You find that it? The feeling of love, always very sweet at the beginning, I felt a much more others to follow suit, more than one person to help you share, you are finally no longer alone, because at least one person thinking of you,恋着you, regardless of what to do thing, as long as they can together, that is good.

But slowly, with the deeper understanding of each other, you begin to discover the shortcomings, so the question of the occurrence of one after another, you start trouble, tired, or even want to avoid. Some people say that love is like picking stones, always wanted to find a suitable for their own, but you know when and how it can be picked up?

In fact, love should be like grinding石子儿, maybe just pick up, you is not so satisfied, but please keep in mind that human beings are flexible, a lot of things can be changed, as long as you want, have the courage, rather than pick up everywhere unknown stone, not as good as a good will he has owned磨亮polished stone, you start grinding it? Many people think that because of the feelings of light, so talent will become lazy. In fact the first to be inert to conquer, so will the feelings of the变淡.

We always said: "I love to find a love who will love." But when you ask each other how we can make love, when love, but you can not answer him, because you do not know.

Yes, we always thought, we will find a person who loves himself loves. But later, when we suddenly look back, we will find that they have, however innocent. If never started, how do you know he or she will love it love that person? In fact, love the feeling of love is to have experienced many things together until found.

Love is definitely not lacking on the find, much less tired on the for -

Be able to work together to find a bear hardships, rather than to enjoy the

Be able to work together to find a bear, rather than fleeing with the

Can you find a responsible, not responsible for love

Love is blind, life is reality

Because love is only human beings in order to escape from the reality

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Love is the main body of life, to live together

You can accompany her sad moment, but you can accompany her to bear all the pressure?

Can you give her the body's temperature, but you can give her life directions?

You can imagine when the passion has faded,

Hug to you there are no attractive

How do you go?

You can forget that the oath, but keep in mind of a mouse.

Ask ourselves, do you love so deeply?

You willing to let two people were injured in it?

Life is not a good person living

Two people together is how well-off


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